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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So...I found out that I, as a sibling, can request the stillbirth certificate, but i need the date of birth. So, without giving a reason, I texted my older brother to see if he knows it. This led to a conversation, and it turns out he has always felt the same way, but with a completely different set of reasons and perspective. This was the LAST thing I expected from him. So, we will take it from here, dcum.

To those of you who were actually helpful and supportive, THANK YOU! Until I talked with my brother, this was a topic that I could not discuss with anyone in real life. So I truly appreciate your help, advice, and open mindedness.

to those of you who were hateful and accused me of everything from selfishness to mental illness - I hope you can be more sensitive the next time someone tries to open up about something so personal. [/quote] your parents either suffered the pain of a stillbirth or chose adoption. In either event, [b]op, this is not your business[/b]. You have no right to purse a part of your partents life that they have closed the door on.  It is selfish.[/quote]

NP here

Say what now? OP may have a long lost sister and it's none of her business? If the parents want that door to stay closed, then they don't have to interact with their long lost daughter. That doesn't mean the adopted-out daughter, or OP, have no right to pursue finding each other. [/quote]

Who says her possible sister wants her life completely up ended by this. [/quote]

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