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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here--

More clarification:

1. The in-laws told him they're okay with him moving on BEFORE we started dating, likely right at or after the one year mark. Friends have played match maker. Clearly, those who actually know him and the family know where they all are in the grieving process and recognize that it's time.

2. We just started dating but given our history and where we are in life (older, knowing what we want) we already know where this is going and yes, marriage was brought to the table pretty quickly--as I've found it often is with older people who know who the heck they are and what the heck they want. That's a huge part of the reason I can easily wait another year or two and date this thing out before marrying and moving in. But the question was asked explicitly and I said that I need more time before I can say yes. I am that one who got away that he's likely been pining for but because he's such a decent human being, he never pursued or acted on it while married. And he's the one who got away from me. Ditto on being too decent to pursue it while he was married.[/quote]

Face it, you were second choice for him. He chose her NOT you. He had kids with her, not YOU. He gave her his youth. 
You get her sloppy seconds.[/quote]

LOL!

Okay![/quote]

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