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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nope. Not a troll or an AH- just a pragmatist. Leave it be or ruin your life with the drama. Up to you OP. Single is single. Married is married. Until DH cheats when you are married you don't have a marital problem unless you make one. And btw stop snooping around your DH's emails - particularly old ones. Yikes!  He actually has almost equal grounds to leave you IMO. [/quote]

7 pages of consensus on OP's husband having done something quite wrong is a very, very rare thing on DCUM.  That you're the lone dissenter should tell you something about your own views.[/quote]

I'm also a dissenter and think OP is making a grave mistake!!!!   She is going to ruin her life.  When she is single and finds the next man he won't be perfect either.  [/quote]
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OP, a long-distance relationship is not a relationship. I get a feeling you are looking for drama. Think about why you are trying so hard to make yourself suffer, maybe consider therapy. I am sorry, but the whole premise sounds insane, and your reaction is unhealthy and over the top.[/quote]

They had an agreement or exclusivity, and were engaged during part of the time.  You really think it's no big deal to be having sex with someone else when you're engaged?

I disagree completely that OP is looking for drama, is insane, or is having an unhealthy reaction.  Completely.[/quote]

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