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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]my child doesn't hurt my feelings. he says mean things to me occasionally, but I don't get "hurt." 1) he doesn't mean them 2) even if he did, he is 41/2 years old and I am his mom. Thsi isn't a relationhsip where I'm expecting something from a person and hurt when I don't get it. you peopel are overinvested in youe kids.[/quote] if he says something mean I do correct him - "that wans't nice". But that is all. Really the mom's job is to love and correct and give. Anything we "get" from our kids comes through our own act of loving and correcting and giving. My feelings don't (and shouldn't) depend on how my kids feel about me. I'm not putting that burden on them.[/quote]
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