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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If this were a donation for a relative, where the genetic connection mattered, that would be one thing. But your friend has many choices available to her.  There are dozens of sperm banks she could go to.  She's choosing you to father a child, which honestly, as your wife, I would not be okay with. At all.  And if I found out you did it behind my back, it would irreparably damage our marriage, if not outright end it.

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You don't know that this woman has "many choices available to her." This comes from a lesbian who is in a same sex marriage - and we used a known donor. It is not a decision that is arrived at simply or easily, and you'd be surprised at how narrow the pool of known donors can become.

That said, I think this would be a breach of trust if you went behind your wife's back. Unless you guys can reach an agreement on this, don't do it.[/quote]

Thank you. Someone who has an actual understanding of the realities facing a lesbian who needs a donor.[/quote]

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