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[quote=Anonymous]I used to take these "consent can be so ambiguous" arguments at face value as a good faith statement of fact. Because there is the possibility of it being ambiguous. But, as I've seen this debate play out, I've seen guys who are *really* invested in the idea of how confusing consent can be. To them, it's like fucking Schrodinger's cat. The presence of these guys tells me that people (mostly women) need protection from predators who will exploit the potential for ambiguity to rape someone. They aren't confused. They just don't give a shit about her consent. The potential for confusion just gives them room to operate and plausible deniability. Because of these guys, we need clear rules on consent with the default being don't have sex unless consent is clear. And, if it means as collateral damage that I, as a guy operating in good faith need to keep my dick in my pants until she sobers up; I can live with that. [/quote]
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