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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]On the other hand, he's a generous tipper even when he's not "nice". Fiance has lots of good qualities but yes I'm a bit worried. Does everyone get married thinking their fiancé is perfect? Because that's not me at all...[/quote]

I hope not! They would be crazy, because no one is perfect.

The drink-to-relax concept is concerning - makes me think he might have alcoholic tendencies. Anyone in his family addicted to something? There is a genetic predisposition to addiction, and healthy people do not need to drink alcohol to relax and be nice to others. Red flag.

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Of course people are more relaxed when they drink.  WTF.  His rudeness to others is something that can be worked on.  I haven't read beyond the above post on page 1 but I will say maybe his social skills are not his strong suit.  I know many people like this.  They are special in others ways.  You can't have it all but you can certainly coach him on this type of thing.  Teach him to take other people's perspectives a little and not think he's superior.  Nobody's perfect and many people who get married feeling certain about it end up getting divorced and vice versa.  It's not easy to find the perfect partner.  Do an inventory of what you do have in him that's positive and see if that's enough.[/quote]

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