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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish he had told me about what the bottled up anger was all about. Or that it would leak out and turn him into an angry violent man. I wish he had told me that someday i would tremble in fear at the sight of him. I wish he had told me that i was making a terrible, life-altering choice that would someday make me regret the day i was born. [/quote]

I'm so sorry pp.  Please tell me you left him?[/quote]

I left him. Five years ago. But we have kids so i still have to deal with him. He is still verbally abusive, takes out his anger on me at every opportunity and generally causes me a lot if distress. When i stand up to him it gets worse and i feel like each time i fall further down. I am still afraid he will hurt me but he hasn't since we were first separated. I can avoid being alone with him so probably i am safe from physical harm - just can't seem to shake the fear. I am shaking right now as i type this - i don't talk about this at all IRL, it is just too much to lay on anyone. And i don't want anyone to know. Thank you for asking. [/quote]

You can't let that excuse for a man run your life forever. You need therapy to shake the fear. Please do consider it. For the sake of your children, if nothing else.[/quote]

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