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Reply to "I asked DH for reassuring words and he flipped out"
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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with PPs that there seems to be a toxic dynamic going on that was undoubtedly made worse by the infidelity. OP, if you and your husband have not gone through counseling to deal with your anger, insecurity, disappointment, communication issues, etc., you have little hope for recovery. We can't possibly know what is going on with your DH, but he sounds resentful and guilty. Either he is still seeing his AP or he feels you will never let him live it down so it doesn't matter. In your original post, you left out the most important part - that you are both reeling from the most devastating betrayal that can happen to a marriage. Fix that and the other pieces will fall in place, because they all contributed to it. Push it aside as an afterthought and it will consume you both. BTDT.[/quote]
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