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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm going to try to say this gently.

After infidelity, there can be a lot of hurt feelings on both sides. It can take months of an intricate dance, learning to communicate again. You're probabably very angry and needing constant and frequent reassurance that the relationship is on the repair track. While your husband need a to be mindful of the hurt he's caused, he is also dealing with his own fallout, consequences and anger. He may feel that he is jumping through hoops trying to "make" you happy again, like taking care of repairs at you other home, etc. When you call him and ask for MORE reassurance,he may just be feeling overwhelmed and thus snaps.

I'd really suggest counselling for you both. That's couples and individual counselling.

You do sound a little manipulative (even how you've responded to these posts), and he sounds that he withholds affection when cornered. It's not a great combo unless you can figure out how to communicate with each other, as the other needs it. [/quote]

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