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Reply to "I asked DH for reassuring words and he flipped out"
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[quote=Anonymous]NP here. I have experienced this, where he blows up and immediately goes into ranting, destructive mode as if I've been accusing him of a million wrongs. He has no strong sense of his identity, no boundaries, and grew up with a lot of abuse and shaming. He overreacts to everything. I keep my own counsel and handle my own problems, but sometimes you do need some reassurance or emotional connection with a supposed partner. That takes boundaries and an ability to hear clearly without distortions or making it all about you. He's been in intensive therapy, and is slowly learning to handle things a bit better, but he'll always have this problem. [/quote]
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