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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Um, I don't think you spend$300 on a valentines dinner if you're not interested[/quote]

Exactly.[/quote]

But interested in what???  If I go on multiple dates with someone and they don't even kiss me, I don't see a romantic/physical connection developing.  [/quote]

He believes all that crap about how women hate guys who are just interested in sex. So he's trying to be a gentlemen. He didn't get the subtext that women want a man to be a gentleman until they don't want him to be a gentleman any more. He didn't recognize if/when the light switched from red to green.[/quote]

From what the OP said, I'm not sure if the light did switch from green to red for her.  But if he keeps this up, and is a gentleman, I think it will. [/quote]

Yeah, reading this thread I'm not sure it's clear that Mr. Gentleman Big Bucks has been given the green light from the OP. Given her wariness of the Big Date I'm guessing that maybe she's giving off a tentative vibe? I could be wrong.

But not even going for a goodnight kiss seems a little "too" gentlemanly to me.[/quote]

Not necessarily.  As a female, if I know someone is into me, and I'm not sure about them, it makes me nervous and kind of worried about whether they will try to make a big move, how I will react, etc.  When they pull that energy back and dont make a move, it allows me to stop worrying and start focusing on the conversation and just learn about them as a person. In general, that really increases the attraction for me.  After I while I might even start getting impatient!  Happened with my ex... [b]him backing off and never making a move led me from uncertainty about him to wanting to jump his bones![/b][/quote]

There you have it. That's why he's Mr. Big Bucks. He's a genius!

His name isn't Christian, is it?

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