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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This only holds if you really are trying to meet your wife's needs physically.  Because here I am, never in the mood for the kind of sex my DH has to offer.   I'd be SO in the mood for a different kind of sex. But alas, he isn't interested, not really, in giving it to me. So here I am. [/quote]

I won't derail this thread with details (and this is the non-explicit) but yes, I've tried plenty of things inside and outside of the bedroom.  Things she's said are important (i.e. cuddling, non sexual contact) with very little long-term improvement.  A bit like you described- some short term change but nothing long term.  So just as your husband should give oral to you (or whatever you desire) on occasion even if he's not in the mood, it'd be nice for my wife to give a bj on occasion even if she isn't in the mood.  What's really frustrating is she can only manage less than 5 minutes of a half-hearted handy before her wrist hurts.  <sigh>

Of course each of our spouses have the right to say no but wouldn't you agree that years of rejection leads to resentment and anger?[/quote]

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