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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to relax.  You need to tell yourself that you really wouldn't want to have friends who judge you for a crappy paint job or a little mess.  Put yourself in a frame of mind that the most important thing is to make them feel welcome.  That should include letting them see a bit of failure and humanity.  Let them help you make the crudites.  My best dinner parties have involved someone helping me out of a bind and taking over a chicken or gravy or something.  People love to feel needed.

Personally, I hate going to perfect houses.  I am suspicious of anyone whose house is immaculate and where all the furniture looks like it came out of a showroom.[/quote]

OP here. Thanks for the advice, that's a really good point. I like people best when they come by their flaws honestly, so I don't know why I feel the need to look perfect![/quote]\

People just really appreciate being invited to someone's home and being fed.  Honestly you could make some roast veggies and pick up a rotisserie chicken and a bottle of wine and 99% of people will just be happy to have some company and some food.   The other 1% aren't worth having in your home anyway, better to weed them out of your life. [/quote]

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