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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
"At 150 pounds, you were not thin."  If this isn't some pro-ana BS, I don't know what is. PP, read what you wrote here to your therapist. Tell him or her that you were disgusted with yourself when you gained five pounds after having a child.  At your height, you should barely notice five pounds.  (I know this because I am your height, and I lost 40 lbs as an adult, and no one noticed.  I dropped from a tight 14 to a comfortable 12.  5 lbs?  I weigh five pounds more on Sunday if I had chinese on Saturday!)[/quote]
Therapists? You mean people who get paid by other people to make them feel like gaining 40 pounds is OK?  No thank you.

Going from 140 to 150 is quite a change on MY body.

I don't know how you're built, and you don't know how I'm built, so your opinion doesn't mean very much.  If size 12 is comfortable for you, good for you.  My comfortable size, at which I am my comfortable, fit, toned best, is size 6.  I don't go by what other people notice. I notice and that's enough. I don't tell you how much you should weigh so quit pretending you know what's right for other people.

There aren't words enough in the English language to make me believe going from 150 to 190 pound doesn't make one fat.

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New poster - are you denying that you have body image issues?
I don't think anyone is denying that OP is overweight.[/quote]

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