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[quote=Anonymous]I am also in a sexless and loveless marriage, I also would not still be with him if it wasn't for my young children. I am only 30 years old, been married for 4 and have had sex twice in those 4 years. He is an awful person, pathological liar, greedy, selfish,and the list goes on. I married him only because Ithought it was the best for my kids and now iI know it was the worst but divorcing may be even worse. They don't know his true nature, not yet anyways. They are too young and I spend a lot of time covering his ass, not for him mind you but for them. They will eventually find out who he is and it will nodoubt hurt them so iI'm just trying to prolong it. They don't deserve it and iIfeel like no matter what choice iI make at this point I'm failing them. If I was selfish I'dbe out of here nand making myself happy again, I mean I'm sure 30, in my sexual prime and am basically a born again virgin. But that's on me, I knowhe wants to but iI refuse. I may be stuck with him but Iwill never touch him again. We ddon'teven sleep in the same bed, never have since getting married. He refuses to divorce me in a civil manner and has threatened me to make life ffor me and the kids miserable if i file so there is the other reason why. Basically iIddon'twant my kids to get hurt but iI also don't want to wake up at 50 yes old and realize my life was wasted with him. I also realize that this marriage is unhealthy for my children, I'm not stupid but I'min between a rock aand a hard spot. Any advice would be so greatly appreciated. I just want my kids to be okay and happy and eventually I would like to be happy too.[/quote]

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