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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a similar situation with my DH and in-laws, including infertility, to the point I wondered if I had changed details and had actually posted this!

- We don't know how/ why the husband told the MIL (do we)?
- The issue is with the DH; he went out of the bounds of marriage and broke trust. Yes, it IS a big deal. Maybe the PPs who are saying "You are a ninny' are either weird,. in terrible relationships, or just trolling to be mean (I Guess the last one)
- Many in-law relationships change around pregnancy/first babies, so I wouldn't nec. ascribe everything to this lie (although it sounds like a biggie it may have happened anyway)
- It was a terrible think for your MIL to ask be lied about , and a terrible thing for him to agree to lie about (telling her about something going on in your body w/o your consent). 
- If this is in anyway, shape or form emblematic of your relationship with your DH, I'd find a good therapist for help now- better to have overkill on something as important as trust and betrayal and your reproductive system  (before you turn into a meanie poster yourself)! 
- TO answer the matter at hand, I think you need to talk to your  husband about whether the three of you speak together- your saying, I have already addressed DH's betrayal, he stands me up 100%, now I need to address yours b/c I want to have a real relationship with you or if your husband talks to her without you.
- I don't think you will ever have a good relationship with this woman, unless you are exceptionally good at forgiving and there is a real basis for solid relationship here (Which it sounds likethereis not after the last 2 years). Still if you feel like you are seething inside everytime you see her perhaps a conversation could get you to socially-less-difficult relationship.[/quote]

Thanks.  I already know the trolls are fierce in this forum so I expected it.  I should probably just ignore.[/quote]

No, no dummy, a troll isn't someone who disagrees with you or tells you something you don't like.  A troll is someone who posts inflammatory or untrue things to purposefully start arguments.  Understand now?[/quote]

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