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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] Yea, a man over 45 having a baby is irresponsible and selfish. At 45 you should be helping your kids get ready for prom, not wiping shit out of the folds of baby legs.[/quote] Don't say that. Your current DH may drop dead tomorrow (assuming you are a woman) and you may end up remarrying 40-something man who wants to have a baby. You just never know. [/quote] I'm done having babies. When I'm 45 I'm going to be attending my kids HS graduation. Not changing diapers. No way in hell would I matry an old man who wanted babies.[/quote] Young and foolish, no doubt. [/quote] Um, I have a career and two healthy children who are in middle school. I SAH and raised babies for a few years. I'm not interested in doing it again. SO yes, maybe I am foolish to not consider the hypothetical if my DH were to die, I'd somehow get the burning desire to have kids in my 40s when I already have near grown children. Sounds delightful to stare my 50s and menopause with fieldtrips to Pumpkinville with the preschool class. In my 50s, I'm planning on playing a lot of golf, and do a lot of traveling....and Disney is not what I have in mind. I will save all of these middle aged men with baby fever for the rest of you...you all can have at them. Tare it up ladies![/quote] This is one of the more bizarre and unnecessary exchanges I've seen in a while. Lady, we get it. You're done with kids. Bully for you, but STFU about what anyone else should do. BE gone with you.[/quote]
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