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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I have been married for 3 years.  I'm 33, he is 42.
We do not want children.  We have never wavered on that.
I know that I won't change my mind down the road.  
When we decided to be sexually exclusive prior to marriage, we decided that our birth control would be me taking the pill.
I was 100% fine with that, as I had never had any issues with hormonal birth control.  In the last year, it has done a number on me.
My doctor has tried switching me to different birth control pills, IUD, Depo, etc.
I've had horrid side-effects with each one.  I want to go off of all birth control all together.
I mentioned this to DH and suggested that he get a vasectomy.  He told me that he doesn't want to go through a surgery.
I told him that the only other option was for me to get a tubal ligation, but I don't want to.
I've been poked and prodded so much this year, that the last thing I want to do is go through that.  I also mentioned that condoms are an option and he scoffed at that too.
I can guarantee that DH isn't looking to have children down the road.  He's just squeamish about anyone cutting him in such a delicate area.
I'm pretty pissed that he's not willing to go through with it, but would be fine with me going through it.
It shouldn't all be on me.  Am I wrong here?

I'm just chiming in to support you OP.  Lord know we have to deal with enough sh--.  My husband hot one earlier this year and was LITERALLY riding his bike within 24 hours.  Totally different ball of wax for him vs. you.  I'd make this a thing.  He absolutely should do this for you, or wear a condom every time. 
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