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[quote=Anonymous]I've lived through being cheated on and lied to, and as nightmarish as it is to work through, I still want to know. I want to live an authentic life, no matter how painful, and if I'm living with someone who's lying to me about such a thing, that person is making the narrative of my life a lie. The hardest part of being cheated on is looking back at times when you thought you and your partner were happy and close and open together, and then realizing that their words were lies, and they were betraying you. Your reality was not real. I don't want to be with someone who believes they have a right to define my reality. This is a personal preference, and varies by situation. I only speak for myself. Any partner I'm with knows this is how I see things. [/quote]
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