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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just cause it's bullshit for you, doesn't mean it is for anyone else. As long as you and your wife are on the same page, that's all that matters.[/quote]

9/10 times the "you did this and LIED about it" is just a way of throwing the book at them and loading up the charges.  Nothing more.  The cheated on spouse would not be like 'oh, you told me, so it's all good'.  The only people like this are people with "understandings" and open marriages.  Do some people forgive and move beyond an affair? Yes, absolutely, but I don't believe for a minute that someone who asked for a monogamous commitment and was then cheated on is all "oh, you were up front about it so it's all good".

[quote=Anonymous]And did you really mean to call your former wife a tar baby? Really??[/quote]

Clearly you have no experience trying to negotiate in good faith with a chronically negative (depressed) passive aggressive person, or the metaphor would have perfect pitch.  I'm the fool for having played the game for so long.  [/quote]

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