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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Planning date nights with no expectation of sex?"

That's the only kind of date night I plan.  I have no reason to have an expectation of sex because sex never happens.  [/quote]

That's cruel. My husband takes me out, I'm having sex with him. [/quote]

Most the time, by the time I get the babysitter taken home (maybe a 15-20 minute process), my wife has changed into frumpy clothes and is asleep. So, I've never really seen the value of the date night advice. [/quote]

This isn't that hard of a problem to solve.  Get a sitter who can drive or who lives near enough to walk.  have you made any effort to do that?  No, I bet she's in charge of that, right, and it never occurred to you. 
And here's another one that might work, and I bet you never tried.  Say to her when you get home BEFORE you drop off the babysitter that you think she looks really beautiful just as she is and she shouldn't change out of that outfit because you plan to make her a special cocktail when you get back from dropping off the sitter.  Tell her in the meantime, do nothing -- no dishes -- except just relax.  And kiss her.  In other words, treat her like a human being who you actually like, and she might start to act like a person who thinks of herself that way too.[/quote]

This- exactly this.

And for all you people whining about "why doesn't she do it?" He is the person on this board, and the one who has an issue with the current lack of sex.if he wants that to change it is up to him. Just as if the female wants things to change it is up to her. But she's not the one on here, and this seems to be happy with it.  Thus the onus is on him. [/quote]

Whether or not someone posts on DCUM is not really the measurement for how happy they are. !!!!![/quote]

Of course not, but she's not on here so of course were going to give advice to the party who is asking for it!!! What part of that don't you understand?[/quote]

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