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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How often do you take off work to spend the day with her?

How often do you go on dates without the children? How often do you actually plan the date and daycare?

How often do you go on vacation without the children?

How often does she go away with friends without you or the children?

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Oh, fuck this. It's standard issue advice for husbands of wives who have unilaterally decided that because they are mothers there is no longer any reasonable expectation that they'll be wives as well. And it doesn't work. It's gaslighting to make him think he's at fault for the poor treatment he's receiving and, even more, kiss her ass. Talk about victim blaming. [/quote]

so you think it is okay for a couple to never go on a date, never take a day off together, [b]never vacation without children[/b], never go away without the family.

You life must SUCK![/quote]

Last summer, we had [b]our first three days together without children in 17 years.  It was wonderful, but not something we could have done before that. [/b] Not everyone has people ready, willing AND able to take care of their children while they go on vacation together.  If you do, consider yourself one of the lucky ones. [/quote]

i find this hard to believe. [/quote]

Why?  Not everyone has people to take care of their children for extended amounts of time. [/quote]

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