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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Appointment was yesterday.  I think it went well.  She validated how I am feeling but also pointed out that I am probably putting the baby first, in a bad way.  She encouraged me to see if he'd come to counseling too and suggested some other concrete ideas.  I haven't asked him yet.[/quote]

A pp here.  Glad it went well.  Did you talk to your DH about counseling yet?[/quote]

No, and I don't think I will although I'm going back this week. [b] Reading all the hateful replies sent me into a spiral again.  I guess people just read the posts they want and not all of them. [/b] I'm not making excuses for everything.  I went to counseling, so I don't know why people are bashing me for making excuses as to why I won't go.  I love a PP's suggestion of condoms and charting, so I'm not sure why people are harping on me making excuses about birth control.  Hateful, hateful people.[/quote]

OP, get a grip on yourself. Put you Into a spiral? Seriously? You posted on a public, anonymous board. Did you really think that every reply here would be of the supportive "oh poor bunny" type?

I read back through the posts and found nothing hateful. Because someone doesn't agree with you doesn't make them "hateful". It means their experience in life is not your experience. Most of the advice I saw, even when contrary to what you wanted to hear, seemed pretty reasonable.

Life is full of dissenters. Sometimes their opinions should be taken to heart, because they're honest and impartial.

Reading your reactions to any post that is contrary to what you want to hear, I'm wondering if this is what you do with your husband? Can you look honestly at yourself and say if you negate what he is saying if it differs from what you want to hear?

I'm glad you're in counseling, and hope you continue to go. You sound honestly like you have some things to work out. Disagreeing with people. Is part of like. Being overwhelmed is part of life. You need to learn how to not make excuses and empower yourself. [/quote]

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