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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"The advice that I will give a lot of you probably will not register for a few years, but here goes. If you want to have a good relationship with your DH and just a peaceful marriage, a lot of you need to learn to delegate properly. My marriage is not perfect but this is a skill that I learned after a few years. DH is pretty active with household stuff anyways, but if I ask him (not tell) him to do something, I do not tell him HOW to get the task done and if the task is done within reason, I do not critique it. Now if he really screws it up (which is rare) I mention it to him, but not in a negative confrontational posture. One example is that my DH uses the dishwasher and I prefer to hand-wash. Thus, I know that if I need him to cover the dishes, he is going to do it his way. And if I want it done MY way, I should be prepared to do it myself. I am just not sure it is constructive for a person or a marriage to micromanage to that degree."

[b]OK.  But wouldn't you agree that shoving the popcorn off to the side instead of picking up falls into the "screw up" category, and that you would nicely mention that you wouldn't have handled it that way[/b]?[/quote]

Not the PP you're quoting but sweepoing the popcorn to the side is exactly what I would have done.  And, if you're read the thread, you would have seen a good number of other people would have done the same thing.  [/quote]

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