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[quote=Anonymous]If your husband gets mad when you express how you feel, refused couples therapy and makes no effort to spend at least a little time with you knowing how important it is, you need to leave him.  It is better to leave now, or you will end up like me 14 years into a miserable marriage with a man who also  ignores me.  I have learned that it is better to divorce while the kids are very young, as they won't remember life any other way.  Your husband has serious issues and I'm sure some of these qualities were evident when you were dating, but you chose to ignore.  When a man doesn't want sex, there are serious issues.  He's either gay, depressed, cheating or has some sort of medical issue that needs to be addressed.

As a last ditch effort, plan a date with him.  Tell  him to be ready at a certain day/time and have childcare lined up.  If he refuses this, I suggest that you run as fast as you can.  Since he is refusing therapy, there is no way for you to work on your marriage.  If you stay in this marriage like it currently is, not only will you end up miserable and depressed, but you set a horrible example of what a marriage is and put your child in danger of later leading a similar life.  [/quote]

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