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[quote=Anonymous]All the biological stop watch keepers are out in numbers.

OP, giving this guy an ultimatum is the worst mistake you can make in this situation. It will only lead to resentments later. All you need to do is make your own decision as to what will make you happy over the long term. Many women play the biological stopwatch game with men, only to end up living dull and mediocre lives together. I think the advice the men gave on this thread are the best. The advice about taking matters in your own hands will certainly get you married, but seriously, what kind of marriage? Can you see yourself married to this guy today if both of you repeated the vows now and sign?

Only you can answer, not anyone else who had ultimatums work for them. Today he wants time to save, tomorrow he wants time before having kids, next week he wants time to learn being a father and leave you with all the parenting stress, then you both resent each other, and no doubt he can rightly argue that you foisted your way on him.

A word to the wise is sufficient.[/quote]

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