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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not naïve - my wife was doing it with a couple of other guys when we first starting going out.  But my job was not, and will never be, to tell someone else what to do.

I did tell her that I do not sleep with multiple people and if that was what she was into, to leave me out.  And that if she did not feel there was the potential to be a couple, to let me know so that I could eventually find someone who would be interested in that with me.

Well, it worked out so I don't look at OP as a bad person, maybe just someone who can't seal the deal with a guy who would actually be good to her.  Married for 15 years, every once in a while "remind" her of the circumstances when we met, then have some fun....[/quote]

That's fine, I agree with you. But my whole point is that, reading between the lines, I have the sense that she maneuvered guy 1 into thinking he was in an exclusive relationship, while leaving herself the freedom to sleep with other men. I might be way off base, but I don't thnk so.  If so, that is not a morally defensible course of action on OP's part.  Nor would it be if the genders were reversed.[/quote]

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