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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, a few things. [b]Healthy straight men do not invite girls to go away with them unless they are expecting sex.[/b] Healthy straight women should not go on such trips unless they want to have sex with the men who invite them. Your daughter is 17. In a year, she will be 18 which means she can vote, die for her country, sign contracts and get married. One year makes a lot of difference. Based on your follow up post, I suspect you just want her off your hands which is sad. [b]You need to dial back your business travels and be a mom.[/b] Talk with her about sex and about men, not in a lecture mode but about life. Offer to take her to a gynecologist. Have your husband talk with her too, so she gets the male perspective. I suspect your daughter knew full well which parent to ask to get the "yes" she thinks she wants. Your husband was happy to give it because that means he can go on his golf trip. You are unwilling to stay home from your openended business trip and your daughter knows this too. If you two are as absentee as your posts suggest, trading sex for inclusion is a fine trade for her to make. Know too that the costs, finantial, emotional and logistical of an unplanned and unwanted baby fall to the girl's family, i.e. you. You seem to have washed your hands of your daughter. Think very hard about how you will parent her child. [/quote]

You have a very strange outlook on the world.  This has not been my experience, but I am not in the habit of dating sleezebags!

This woman has a 17 YEAR-old, not a 17 month-old.  I think that a kid of this age who is shown the respect and independence she has earned with her good behavior is better off than a kid who is never allowed to make any of her own decisions or organize her own life.  OP, I think you made a good decision and congratulations on raising such a nice kid. [/quote]

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