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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Kindness.  I think integrity and many other qualities go along with it.  If you are kind, you don't cheat on your wife.   If you are having a hard time with something, in your kindness you deal with it directly.   When you are kind, you are not thinking only of yourself.   I don't know many kind, unethical people (can't think of a one).   [/quote]

I like this answer. [/quote]

I disagree about this.  Even a kind person can get caught up in bad actions (particularly cheating).

My answer is a basic respect for others and treating others with respect, even when the chips are down.  My spouse respects me and my needs (and tries to help me meet them), and treats our children, friends, and everyone else we encounter with respect.  Often this looks like kindness, I think. And if things ever go bad between us, I am confident that we would handle that with respect for each other as well.  [/quote]

Kindness and respect go hand in hand. Someone who is kind or respectful doesn't cheat. Cheating is lying, stealing, betraying, hurting others. That is a choice made from a place where there is no kindness, respect or integrity. Women don't slip and fall onto a penis like it is an accident and men don't trip and land in a vagina. It is choice made and no different than lying, stealing and cheating in business or lying and cheating and betraying in any other capacity. A kind and respectful person doesn't get caught up in those types of situations. [/quote]

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