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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I got separated under similar circumstances. My ex had secretly been spending down our assets. Just so you know, I ended up with more than half the retirement money, child support and alimony. He was responsible for all the debts he racked up as well. We tried the collaborative route, but it was awful. I felt bullied and belittled during the mediation. I switched to another attorney and felt so much better taken care of. I wanted to do the collaborative thing, but when one party is not grounded in reality, it is not an easy thing to accomplish. This is the one time in your life that you must stand up for yourself and not try to make everyone happy. It's not easy. Hang in there. Good luck.[/quote]
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