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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would question any man that didn't want their kids 50% of the time out of the gate.  If my DW wanted a divorce and said "I only want the kids every other weekend", I'd push for sole/legal custody and keep her away.[/quote]

That's silly. I give credit to the man that says he isn't able to care for the kids full time, for whatever reason, like the mother can. [/quote]

How are you not able to care for your children?  They are your kids.  It isn't an option.  When you decide to have a child, you pretty much say I'm willing to do what it takes to take care of this child no matter what happens in life.

So [b]any man willing to say "Hey my job and social life is more important than my kids, so DW can have them most of the time" is a shitty father.[/b]

Now if the courts decide it is in the best interest of the child to be with the mother most of the time, then so be it.  But I'd be back in court a million times until I was given the right to see my child 50% of the time.[/quote]

You are absolutely right on this!  He's saying I don't want my standard of living to decrease because I now have to take care of kids 50% of the time.
It is well know that because of divorce,  a dad's standard of living improves while the mom's standard of living deteriorates.  Please make sure you get a good lawyer to prevent this from happening. [/quote]

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