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[quote=Anonymous][quote]If this was suddenly flipped and the OP was a man, would the advice be the same? Would people be telling him that the soon to be ex wife was trying to screw him over? Somehow, I doubt it.

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yes, if the man stayed home and didnt' put into retirement while the woman put away full retirement AND ran up joint debt and then decided that the reitrement was all hers, but the debt was theirs? and decided that joint custody meant the ex was taking care of the kids whenever it suited her?

OP, do not make a child custody support decision based on what you think your full time hours will be. Make them on what they are now. Jobs are not guaranteed! ALso,make sure there is a clause that you will both share income yearly so that supprt can be adjusted. In 3 years he could be making 300k but not paying any more (and same for you). Anyway, just make sure you really see a regular divorce lawyer. 
When did he get in touch with the ex? he might hvae ben planning this a while, which means you need to look out for deceptive monetary practices--do all the debts add up?[/quote]

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