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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I was looking for longterm and [b]I knew you had lipo and still wound up obese,[/b] I guess I would not date you. You likely have self-control issues and will end up obese as you get older no matter what. Or, you'll lose the weight and to keep it off you completely have to change your lifestyle. Going on vacation and dining and making special meals is important to me and if I was with someone counting points it would drive me freaking nuts. [/quote]

I'd want to know more about this too, OP.  When did you have lipo?  How much did you weigh before?

The reason people are harping on the size 14 thing, I think, is because it doesn't really jive with 215 lbs.  OK, yes some of you will come on and say "I was 350 lbs and a size 8!" but realistically it isn't very common to be in the obese range (which 215 lbs is) and still be able to fit into a "normal" (albeit large) clothing size.  OP, I think if you were say, 20 lbs overweight post-partum or a "typical" size 14 (180-190 lbs at your height) you'd have more luck.  Have you tried losing weight the typical (as opposed to lipo) way?  Why do you think you are so heavy?[/quote]

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