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[quote=Anonymous]I'm all aboard the OP is out of touch with reality train...but at the same time, this man chose to leave his family for years on end to pursue his work.  He's making a good salary, but probably one that can be equaled in the states or in the same city as his wife and child.

He is not in the military and he is not a contractor making a shit-ton of money.  Families of those people make incredible sacrifices in their families for the greater good (or in some cases, b/c the money justifies the sacrifices for their family). Sorry, but I think pursuing a decent job overseas for years when you have a school-age child back home is being selfish.  Maybe if it was necessary for career advancement and both spouses were in agreement...but that is not the case here.

Anyway, OP, this is not a healthy marriage or a happy family.  Why would you expect your DH to return from overseas b/c you had a very bad case of strep throat?  What if you were single? You would manage.  But most importantly and separate from your marital issues, how is your child handling the situation?  Is your home a happy place with just you two?  I cannot imagine this is good for anyone.

If you want to divorce but money is holding you back, at least meet with an attorney.  You work and that is just a lame excuse to stay stuck in a horrible situation (for everyone involved).[/quote]

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