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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a 38 year old single mom and I haven't had any issues meeting single guys and dating.  I'm also a bit career focused and have a fat belly to boot.

I met a lot of guys through my meetup group - that I started - so that sort of naturally made me a magnet for people to talk to.  And I met a lot of nice guys online.

I think the trick is your approach.  I gave pretty much most guys a shot if they contacted me (and the contact wasn't creepy or overtly sexual).  I didn't have a big list of expectations other than they had a job and if they had kids, they were involved.  The guys I met were all college educated, in a professional career, and nice.  Tall, short, small, fat -- whatever.  I went into the first meeting just looking to meet a new person -- not to see if this guy was 'the one'.  I think guys can smell that and it freaks them out.  I wanted to get to know them and go from there.  I ended up meeting a great guy online and we've been together for 10 months.

Tell your friends to give people a chance, lower their guard, and just look at it as an opportunity to meet someone new.  If it clicks, great.  If not, no big deal...it's one evening or coffee date in a life time.[/quote]

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