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Reply to "I want to be the fun laid back wife. Please tell me how."
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[quote=Anonymous]Everybody has strengths and weaknesses. My husband is messy and can be a slack ass on certain things. On the other hand he is very driven and when he make a goal he reaches it. We have learned to delegate out shit that makes people argue; yard work and house cleaning. Before we had kids we went to counseling to see what we expected from each other as parents. Our views differed....I mean east and west differed. Had we not talked that out and met in the middle, we would have divorced years ago. You can't change who he inherently is, but you can voice your expectations. Being a lazy ass is just that. If there are some things you can let slide, do so. Don't harp on small stuff. During my 2nd pregnancy, DH kept putting off putting together a toddler bed and dresser. I called a handy man service and they took care of it pronto. My motto has been if you don't want to do it, be prepared to pay someone to do it and don't bitch about the cost. [/quote]
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