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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, get over yourself. You have one healthy child who you are going to mess up if you keep having this mind set of not being able to be happy without another child. You are setting your kid up for feelings of not being enough for you. Be happy with the family you have, don't mourn for the family you might have. It sounds like your quest for another child is already ripping your family apart.    [/quote]
If you turned out to be married to a someone who lied to you, would you tell yourself to be happy with the family you have?[/quote]

First off your husband did not intentionally lie to you, he changed his mind. You gave him an ultimatum when you were already pregnant and he gave you what he probably felt was an honest answer. At that time neither of you knew what one child would do to your relationship. Have you really never changed your mind on a major issue after learning all the facts? If you can't accept that people make mistakes, change their minds, and make selfish decisions then you shouldn't be married or a mother.   [/quote]
I am not the OP.  My husband always said we'd have more children, we never planned just one.  We were making plans as recently as early this year. He abruptly declared "it's too much responsibility" two months ago. [/quote]

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