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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ugh. I am single and please don't isolate your single friends from your lives because you see them as a threat. I've only had a crush on the husband of ONE friend and my response is to treat him in a manner that is cordial but somewhat distant. No way would I ever want to get involved with a married man, much less the husband of a friend. That is just a waste of time and a disaster. No matter what, the single friend doesn't win. Chances are the man doesn't want to leave his wife, but even if it does, do I want to marry a cheater? No.[/quote]

I've been in the same boat. It took months and a LOT of prayer to extinguish the inappropriate romantic feelings I developed for a friend's husband. She and he never guessed. The whole time I was distancing myself, they were calling to invite me to hang with them. I felt so bad hurting their feelings, but it was what was best for everyone involved. Meanwhile, women with the least appealing husbands cut me out of their social circle after my divorce only to learn later that their DH was screwing a still-married friend.[/quote]

Yep! I'm a single woman and have run into a similar issue. Being pushed out as the single woman and the wife is completely oblivious to a married woman in the circle with ulterior motives. Or the husband (not every, of course) has done or said something inappropriate towards me. I have gone in the other direction...I don't pursue friendships with married women anymore. [/quote]

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