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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I was 20, he's 10 years older when we met. Maybe I took the experience of age  for the sign of intelligence, but once I had these experiences myself, I stopped learning from him. In fact, I stopped initiating interesting conversations with him. Again, we are probably of equal intelligence, and in many was he's a better person than I am, but I am not curious about his thoughts anymore.[/quote]

I don't mean this to sound shitty, but wasn't it a red flag that a 30 yo man was pursuing you two years out of high school?[/quote]

Not the PP.  But the older guy who pursued me when I was a year out of HS lied about his age at first - told me he was 3 years younger than he really was, which would have put him mid 20's.  He was very persistent and I finally relented and went out w/him.  By the time he admitted his real age to me we had been dating for (6?) months...and already pretty heavily involved.  He told me that he felt bad about being dishonest about his age but figured I never would have gone out with him if I had known the truth.  I thought I was dating a grad student, turned out he was an older undergrad...so more than a few lies there.  And, yep, I kept seeing him even after he came clean about it all.

Not saying that all or even most older guys lie about these things but that is why there were no "red flags" in my situation with regard to age, at least not at first.  [/quote]

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