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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A predictable cheater?[/quote]

Absolutely. Defensiveness, bitterness, righteous indignation, selfishness and blame casting are all predictive behavior for cheating. And equally counterproductive to reconciliation once that happens (and it will happen). This is the reason so many infidelities end in divorce instead of recovery.[/quote]

Such qualities in a partner kill libido pretty quickly too. Have you wondered why your DW is voluntarily celibate? My guess is that the problem begins and ends with you.[/quote]

Yea sure it does.  Typical hypocrite.

If I cheat on my wife because I can't get sex, it is my fault and she is not to blame.

HOWEVER, if my wife unilaterally decides not to have sex with me, that is also MY fault.

Hell, why would I try to work on that type of relationship?  LOL![/quote]

If you're in a sexless marriage, and your wife refuses to work out your problems, you should get a divorce. You are correct in thinking that the marriage is not salvageable if she's not willing to work on it. You can avoid the whole affair and futile, frustrating, "being-a-prisoner-in-your-own-home" chapter altogether by getting out now.

FWIW, I agree that being in a sexless marriage is a good enough reason to get divorced. I don't believe having an affair is the solution.[/quote]

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