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[quote=Anonymous][quote][quote=Anonymous]He and his wife both have problems, or they would have divorced or repaired the marriage.  OP, you are a symptom of a relationship that isn't working, but with you there, there is no way they can work it out.  Let them be and find someplace that your presence is not a symptom of some one else's bad choices.

I do not believe you should tell his wife.  They know they have problems.  Hell, they both admit to having separated status online.  Don't throw fuel on the fire.

[/quote]I will also note that being the other woman is always easier than being married.  Does he take out the trash at your place, fix the broken toilet or make a mess?  Do you have to do his laundry or make sure you've bought enough food for everyone besides your?  You are his "easy" relationship, and he is probable pretty easy for you.  There is no guarantee that if you step into the hard part of a relationship, you'd remain in love with him.[/quote][quote]

I know this isn't the point, but all of the above was happening before the baby. My garbage disposal broke, he fixed it. He did take out my trash every week. When we went away on business I cooked big meals so he didnt have to eat take out every night. He is a slob and spent the night several times a week. I was ok with that becausd I saw us as a team. But you're right it probably was easier with me. He should have gotten a divorce a long time ago. His wife has a severe mental illness. I don't want to say more because we all live in the dc area. But she has done some fucked up things, that I learned about from someone elsd, that almost cost him his clearance. [/quote]

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