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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for the previous suggestions. DH is older than I am (he's in his mid-40s), and I just think he is angry at having to go through this phase again. Especially financially with daycare etc. But, he had everything to do with this baby, despite his frequent declarations that the baby was my idea. And baby is here now, so what's the point in dwelling on the past. It certainly doesn't help my blood pressure.

We talked vasectomy but he was too chicken to get one. Even now he is saying it over and over, but hasn't scheduled anything. He is suggesting that I "get fixed" and even suggested that I have an elective Cesarian so I could "get fixed" at the same time as giving birth. Nice....

It's just a rough situation. He wasnt particularly involved with our older two as babies, and now is being forced to. He is a more cynical and sarcastic type and I don't think he enjoys parenting. Yes, He wanted two kids bc it was the thing to do and expected - he wanted the "pleasantville" ideal not realizing the work involved. But he isn't joyful or lighthearted about being a dad. To him it's all duty and responsibility and money. So #3 is hitting him particularly hard and he lashes out at me. Undeservedly.

We are going to counseling this week!

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