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Reply to "DH - "You didn't even start dinner?""
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[quote=Anonymous]Ok - so yes this is clearly a crappy reaction from him - but in DH defense - hes probably tired too - with going back to work and 3 kids at home and a wife who just delivered. So as much as he is tagged as a "douche" sometimes you just gotta give him a reminder that yeah - life is getting harder and everyone is a bit more stretched and tired. Rather than the many angry ball kicking suggestions you received (and should act on if he continues this!) maybe an approach is to just both agree on a plan on how you'll adjust from a family of 4 to a family of 5. Getting into a routine is the hardest part and setting expectations and roles helps so people aren't accusatory or passive aggressive. So say - hey - weekends, when you are here with the kids to help - sure Ill handle meals - but on the weekdays I need some help thinking through dinner. lets split nights. or something to this affect. Good luck! [/quote]
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