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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your spouse - man or woman - is denying you sex they are not living up to their marital obligations.  They are leaving you with no ethical way for you to get your sexual needs met.  [b]Then they are pissed when you stray[/b].[/quote]

07:34 again.

So what?

You need to talk to your spouse and say "I want to have a sex life. I want to have it with you. But if you won't have sex with me, I am going to go outside the relationship. What can we do to make this relationship work sexually?"

If he/she is pissed about that, too bad. No sex and no outside excursions is not fair.

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So the spouse says, "We do have a sex life. Missionary three times a month, in bed, at night."  If that's not enough and "Missionary Spouse" won't budge, even after seeing a counsellor specializing in sexual compatibility issues?[/quote]

You tell them that you are not satisfied and see a counselor to improve it. If they don't want to improve it, then you tell them that you reserve the right to step out.

Or you don't tell them, and then you step out on them or you don't.

The deal on this stuff is that it's a kind of chicken. Who is going to compromise to save the marriage? Who doesn't care about the marriage enough to compromise?

You and your spouse are the only ones who can figure that out.

Bad sex can be worth a divorce, though.

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