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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wife here who unfortunately often says no. Reason? I am often tired and since he gained weight I have hard time getting into it. I have suggested/offered support to do something about the weight. He says he will when HE is READY. So men on this board who often get rejected, would you do something about weight if that was adding to the frequency of the rejections?[/quote]

This was a problem in my marriage. My DH slowly gained 50lbs from our wedding day. He was not scrawny when I married him either.

I straight up told him that his weight was an issue and I was not attracted to his body and that if he wanted more sex, he needed to step up his game and act like he cares about attracting me. He promptly 60lbs and is now what I would call "jacked". He is sexier than the day we met and more fit. It was like a fire was lighted under his ass. For him, it is more than attracting me, he feels good about himself and he's proud of his fitness. He dresses better now and his whole personality radiates confidence.

I practice what I preach. I was all over him also because I was the one who had the babies and dug myself out of a hole. If I could do that while working full time with two small children, then what was his excuse? Luckily my DH can make connections and still understand that I'm a sexual being that still needs to be attracted to my spouse.[/quote]

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