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[quote=Anonymous]I feel less alone, mine is a combo of many of the PPs husbands. To wit:

--illness. If I come home and say that I have a fever and terrible headache, his first reaction is "oh god, I'm going to get sick, come to think of it, I feel weird." This culminated recently when both DS and I had the stomach flu and were violently ill at the same time and DH (who never got it) asked me if I could stay up with DS all night to help him puke since he was "feeling like he was coming down with something." Meanwhile it was coming out of me every which way and I had a 102 fever.

--change and socks. They are EVERYWHERE except the hamper and the 'change bowl' on his dresser. In fact, he empties everything out everywhere, except when its important and the he leaves it in his jeans and it gets washed.

--due to the above, every morning is a ritual of "where's my...". I have given up suggesting or creating specific places for specific things when he arrives at home.

--after I cook dinner he will do 83 % of the dishes/cleanup. He will put most things in the DW, but not everything and will leave one or two things on the counter that need to go in the frig and will never wipe down the counters, or will wipe one not the other. So after he 'cleans up' i have to do it.

--he loads the dishwasher in a half assed way--he puts EVERYTHING on top (because its too hard to bend down?) so I go to do more dishes and there is no room up top for glasses because it is full of bowls and plates, but the bottom is empty.So I have to reload the dishwasher.

--he  opens things but doesn't close them. Cabinets, shower door, boxes of crackers, you name it. I once came home to the frig flung wide open. He had opened it and walked away.

--he sends me lots of articles and news items during the day and then acts hurt if I don't read them. Hello, some of us actually work at work!! But the best is the same day that he's sent me 5 or 6 news items, he tells me it was a 'crazy day' at work.  yeahhhh.

--he is obsessed with growing our 2 year old daughter's hair out, even though she will not allow a clip to remain in it and it is fine, straight as a pink and falls into her eyes.  He thinks I finally cut bangs because I am projecting my own 'Hair issues' onto my toddler.

and yet, i love him and probably do some (not as many!) irritating things too. Like, never fully close a bottle so when he picks it up, the cap comes flying off. Like, insist on saving every scrap of food, which then rots in our frig. Like, decide every couple weeks that I must take every single thing out of my bag/jewelry drawer/closet/etc and put it on the bed and do a big sort. At 2 am. [/quote]

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