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Reply to "Perspecitive from the mother of a very popular teenage boy or girl."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think there are a lot of parents on this thread who have their heads in the sand. Seriously you need to get with the program. Yes in the affluence circles particularly...many not all parents do care about the popularity of the kids, yes many of the "popular" and not popular kids are smoking, drinking,etc...at 16. Hooking up at 13 is de rigeour. Stop being so ignorant. If someone says rarely drinks, don't chastise her but accept it, yes for a 16 year old in today's ridiculous growing up way too fast world...rarely drinks IS an accomplishment. I am so sick of these parents who put this silly charade on like they are so shocked all this goes on....[b]like they are appalled that parents care about their precious kids popularity. WELL NEWSFLASH...PEOPLE YES THEY DO![/b] My D a junior is neither here nor there, she is kind of in the middle, she would LOVE to be popular but in 11th grade is accepting her "position" in the pecking order and no longer seeks to join the "cool kids". Fine with me. But I don't for a minute kid myself into thinking because shes not with those kids, she isn't doing the things so many are, or that she doesn't care about being popular because she does and because I know its important to her....guess what I think about it too (but never let her know it). I cannot get over the ignorance of some of the parents here....[/quote] I'm trying to figure out what your point is. I don't care how popular my kid is, as long as he is happy. (And yes, it really is possible for kids to be happy even if they aren't conventionally popular.) Knowing that some parents DO care about shit like this doesn't affect my opinion in any way. You sound like you think that I should care because others do. Thanks for the newsflash, let me consider this a bit more....nope, I still don't care.[/quote]
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