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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My main point was to not assume that the man is playing games, ie still sexing his wife, not going to divorce her, etc.

He could be entirely sincere and the situation could be true love, just with unfortunate yucky timing.

Not everything can happen exactly how or when u want it too.  Sometimes you just have to deal with the ugliness of the timing and go forward with your life.  People who care about you and just want to see you happy will forget all about the timing as the years go by.[/quote]

OP here.  I actually think he is truthful, in love, and will divorce and marry her.  The big factor is the kids.  Her (their) rushing to conceive without considering the psychological impact on his kids troubles me, as does his plan to not see his kids often and her wish not to be their step mother.   To be honest,  if he didn't have kids, these factors would be moot and I would have an easier time keeping her as guardian.  (That said, the fact that these issues do exist are helpful in helping me determine her suitability to be guardian).[/quote]

Sorry, but her complete lack of empathy for this man's dc's speaks to her character.  Do you really want this type of person raising your dc's and passing on her values to them as well?  I don't care how good of a "friend" she is, she sounds like a crummy human being.[/quote]

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