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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think posters here have little ability to empathize with a 6th grade girl.

When you deface someone's face like that, I think it is an act of aggression.   "I hate her and I'm going to mark up her face" is what it feels like to me.

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So help me understand your perspective that these two girls that Op thought were her best friends actually hate her. So you think this was all premeditated in advance and the friendship is a sham? So these two girls who Op says weren't even good friends themselves both planned together to form and keep a friendship with a girl they hate? For 2 grade 7 girls to keep up a facade of being 'best friends' when in fact they hate her is pretty powerful acting skills. So then finally the day comes and they get the invite to a sleepover of the girl they hate. Why would they accept? Oh right to keep up the facade - so now they go to a sleepover they don't want to go to with someone they hate. Even though they have known her for a long time and see her in many contexts they decide the best time to take out they hate and aggression is in her own home with adults present. Instead of doing it somewhere that they might not get in trouble they do it in the presence of adults.

You really think that is what happened? Really? So they are pretty much sociopaths in your mind who rather than spending time with people they actually like put all their energy into faking a best friendship with someone they hate so they could go to a sleepover at her house and take out their aggression on her and get in trouble from her mom?

You appear to have zero ability to understand the social lives and dynamics of middle school girls. [/quote]

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